If I just lose 5 more pounds, then I’ll be happy!
Not with that attitude you won’t!
Learning to love ourselves is something we’ve all struggled with at some point in our lives! We continually flood our minds with “if I just lose 5 more pounds” or “if my hair was just a little blonder.”
I hear our brides say it over and over again, “My goal is to lose (X) number of pounds by the wedding!”
Having a goal is FANTASTIC! And wanting to better yourself is even more fantastic! But it’s not everything.
Beauty doesn’t start with what you see in the mirror. It starts with your mind.
Mindset is EVERYTHING!
Love everything about yourself: the bumps and lumps, jiggly and wiggly, the fizzy hair and big t-shirts you love to wear! It’s what makes you, YOU!
When you wake up and stumble into the bathroom each morning, look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself “I love everything about ME!” SPOILER ALERT: If you say it enough, you might even begin to believe yourself!
There’s a sense of freedom and confidence that comes with loving yourself. Because once you love yourself, nobody can stop you! Nothing will get in your way! Not the dramatic mermaid dress that shows off those your figure or the fit and flare that emphasizes your “belly”! NOTHING!!!
So, enjoy the time you get to spend with your family and enjoy those delicious butter cookies your Grandma makes!
You’re getting to marry the love of your life in the dress of your dreams, enjoy every moment of it!
Love, Your Bridal Stylist Sabina